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The Courtesy of “No Thank You”

We try to teach our kids good manners. One thing we teach them to say is “no, thank you”. It’s not a big deal to say “no, thank you” and move on. So, when between childhood and adulthood did people forget how to say “no, thank you”?

We’ve all been there before. Somebody offers you something, it could be anything - an invite to a party, a business proposal, heck even a stick of gum. We usually respond with a “yes”, a “maybe”, some silence, or sometimes a “no, thank you”. Lately I’ve been surprised at how many times I offer something to someone and simply never hear from them again. I realize people don’t have to fall in love with everything I do or offer…but seriously? No response?

A Few Examples

A friend of a friend asked me to help him out with developing a new website for his business. I told him I’d put together a price quote and send him an e-mail. Two weeks went by - no answer. Was my price too high? Did he find someone else? Was he simply not interested anymore? Who knows. I never heard back…

I listed my Dad’s Audi A4 for sale a few weeks ago and received a call from a local girl. She was driving by my office downtown, saw that the car was for sale, gave me a call, and went out for a test drive. She said her dad would be off work in a couple hours and she would pay cash. A few hours went by, no call. I left a voicemail and never heard from her again…

Our Response

I come by instances like these all the time where I get no response so I assume the answer is “no”. It’s not that I’m frustrated with their decision of declining my offer, it’s the method. Sure, we all like to hear a “Yes”, but even a “No”, or better yet, a “No, Thank You” is better than silence. I’m just interested in having closure. If I’m honest with myself, I know I do this too. I either change the subject after a question I don’t want to say no to, or just never answer, hoping they get the gist.

I realize it’s often hard to say “no” but I think we need to get back in the habit of saying “no, thank you” when we simply don’t want something or want to do something. I think people have got into a bad habit of letting the silence say “no” for them and it’s a cop-out.

Of course we can’t always say “yes”, but we do have a choice in how we communicate our response - staying silent isn’t an option.

Saying “No, Thank You” is a courtesy we can’t afford to ignore.

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How to Make JQuery & Prototype Play Nice

JQuery + Prototype

I’m sure you’ve seen some of the sweetness of JQuery and most likely you’ve used Prototype for dynamic web applications like Lightview, Prototip, etc. However, let’s say we want to use the two together, on the same page. Problemo!

The Problem

JQuery uses a “$” as a shortcut for “jQuery” and Prototype uses “$” as well. We can’t have JQuery and Prototype using the same “$” namespace.

The Fix

Thankfully JQuery has a neat little function called jQuery.noConflict( ) which you basically just need to stick at the top of your JQuery file and replace the “$” alias with “jQuery” for each function. Example:

jQuery.noConflict();
// Do something with jQuery
jQuery("div p").hide();
// Do something with another library's $()
$("content").style.display = 'none';

Of course, there are other ways of solving this issue with jQuery.noConflict( ), but the method above was the most simple and straightforward for me.

NOTE: JQuery doesn’t get along with MooTools and YUI very well either, luckily this can also be solved with the jQuery.noConflict( ) trick.

Let me know if you have any questions or run across any other issues while using JQuery and Prototype. I have a feeling the more popular JQuery becomes, the more and more people will run into this issue.

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Free Directory Assistance: Goog 411

In case you didn’t know - Google has a free 411 service called Goog 411. It’s pretty simple and straight forward. Simply call 1-800-GOOG-411, specify a city, state, and business name. Goog 411 will either transfer your call directly, or you can have a text message sent to your cell phone with the business details (address, phone, etc.).

Simple, fast, and totally free.

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Search: Google vs. Twitter

Google vs. Twitter

Search is the gateway to the web and Google has undoubtedly dominated this arena for quite some time. With a current share of 85% of web searches, Google has become the leader in connecting people to the web.

Google Search

Google search is incredible, no doubt about it, and until recently was the only source I used for searching the web. Google can’t index everything, but does a pretty good job connecting results with queries. Notice I said “pretty good”. For the most part, I can find what I’m looking for - but not always. Let’s say, for instance, I want to see what people are saying about our “economic crisis” in real time. Hmm, can’t do it. Google indexes websites, not conversations. Sure, you could argue that Google indexes Blog comments, forums, and other discussions online… But not in real time.

Twitter Search

Say hello to Twitter, or more specifically Twitter Search. Twitter Search allows you to search for what people are talking about right now.

Example

For example, let’s say I just finished watching the latest episode of 24 (my favorite TV show) and want to see what people are saying about it online.

  1. Google Option: If I use Google search, I may stumble across a few websites on 24 and might (if I get lucky) find a couple threads with some comments where people are talking about the latest episode. But, it’s a needle in the haystack at best, and most likely buried behind a trail of clicks and dead-ends.
  2. Twitter Option: And what about Twitter search? It’s easy - I simply enter “24″ in the search field and click search. Not only do I find what people are saying about 24, but it’s in chronological order. So I have no problem finding the most recent conversations.

Conclusion

Google search has it’s advantages, don’t get me wrong…but Twitter search has uncovered a whole new level of search capabilities. Being able to see what people are talking about in real time is incredibly valuable. And, yes…much more valuable then seeing what people are saying about Jack Bauer. :)

Ok, so what? Should I stop using Google and just use Twitter search? No. They both have their purpose, but the fact of the matter remains - the more Twitter becomes mainstream the more valuable it becomes.

Bonus

Ohh, and if you’re a Firefox user (which you should be) take a look at this for integrating Twitter search with Google search. It’s a simple greesemonkey script that plugs into your Firefox browser adding Twitter search results to the Google search results page.

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Exercise Habit: The 30 Day Fitness Challenge

My wife and I decided enough was enough when it came to our lazy work out ‘habits’, so we hit the ground running at the start of 2009 (quite literally). You see, I’m not sure if you’re like us, but every time we decided to start working out and develop a habit of exercising, we failed. We would strategize, set a goal of exercising three, maybe four times a week, and show up at the gym looking like one of the newbies. I hate to admit it, but we never got past week one. We didn’t have the pressure, the challenge, and the motivation to stick with it.

The Habit

Part of the problem was how we went about developing our ‘habit’. You see, developing a habit doesn’t just happen when you go to the gym three or four times a week. Habits form with continuous repetition. For example, I have a bad habit of biting my nails. I didn’t develop this habit by biting my nails on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. I do it everyday. Same goes for the habit of brushing your teeth every morning and evening - people don’t just brush on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Saturdays. They do it everyday, twice a day! Developing a habit requires continuous repetition. It sounds incredibly simple, and it is.

The 30 Day Fitness Challenge

Say hello to the 30 Day Fitness Challenge. An incredibly simple yet effective way to force yourself to exercise.


Although I wish I could say I worked out each and every day of the 30 day challenge, I missed January 31st. Yeah, yeah I know, shame on me. But, I DID exercise 29 days - a significant improvement from my pitiful one week three/four day streak. Granted, 30 consecutive days are the ideal scenario, but don’t become discouraged if you miss one or two days. Don’t let this become an excuse though to be lazy. Remember, no pain no gain!

How it Works

Ok enough talk, this is how it works:

  1. Put together a schedule, something like the one pictured above (without the big red “X’s”). I’ve already created one for February and March to help you get started, so no excuses. Download the PDF, print out the calendar and post on your fridge for the world to see.
    30 Day Fitness Calendar PDF - Feb

    Download 30 Day Fitness Challenge - Feb

    30 Day Fitness Calendar PDF - Mar


    Download 30 Day Fitness Challenge - Mar

  2. Starting with day One, work out for at least 30 minutes and continue exercising each and every day. Run, lift weights, go for a bike ride, it doesn’t matter - just be sure you exercise for at least 30 minutes and break a sweat. It’s inevitable, some days will be easier then others, but stay strong, push for day 30!
  3. Continue working out every day until you’ve successfully completed day 30. Mark off each day as you complete it with a big red “X“. This does two things for you - 1). Creates some accountability (It’s not easy to skip a day and leave a blank white box!) 2). Encourages you to complete a goal and start creating this healthy habit!
  4. That’s it! Congratulations, you’re now on you’re way to developing a great exercising habit! Let me know you’ve completed the 30 day fitness challenge and I’ll include the image of your completed calendar, your name, and a link to your website.

Oh, one more thing - I would strongly encourage you to get a exercising buddy for the challenge. I really don’t think I would have completed the 30 day fitness challenge if it hadn’t been for my wife. Some days I had to push her, and other days she pushed me. The more accountability the better.

Let me know how it goes!

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Gmail: Get Mail From Other Accounts

I realize this may be old news for some, but I just noticed a feature in Gmail settings that allows you to retrieve mail from other email accounts.

I can’t tell you how frustrated I was, logging into other email accounts and checking mail in 5+ different places.

Oh, and you can also send mail from outside accounts as well. Sweet huh? Ok, enough talk, here’s how it’s done:

How to add a new account:

  1. Login to Gmail
  2. Click the “Settings” link in the top right corner of your browser
  3. Click the “Accounts” link in your settings area
  4. Scroll down until you get to the “Get mail from other accounts:” section
  5. Click the “Add another mail account” link
  6. Enter the email address for the new mail account in the pop up box and click the “next step” button
  7. Fill in the new account’s login credentials: username/password
  8. In the “POP Server:” field: Most likely you can just leave what’s already provided in the text field, but you may need to adjust this to match you mail account settings. If you’re still stuck, go here.
  9. Select any check boxes that you would consider helpful. I would recommend numbers 2 and 3 for security and organization respectively…but that’s just me.
  10. Click the “Add Account” button and assuming everything is set up correctly it should go to the next step. If there are any errors and you’re stuck go here.
  11. Fill in the name that will be associated with your new account and click the “Next Step” button.
  12. Click the “Send Verification” button to verify your new email account.
  13. Go check the email account that your adding, for new email, and look for an email sent from Google containing a verification code. Copy the verification code, paste it in the verification text field, and click the “Verify” button
  14. If you would like to send email from your new email account, using Gmail, select the “Yes, I want to be able to send mail as: ” option and click the “Next Step” button.
  15. You’re Done! You will be returned to your Gmail settings page and will now be able to use your new email account in Gmail. :)

As a note: Getting mail from a Yahoo account requires you to be a Yahoo! Mail Plus subscriber. Server denied POP3 access for the given username and password. POP access is limited to Yahoo! Mail Plus subscribers. Please contact Yahoo! Mail’s support team for more information.

I also wasn’t able to set up a Hotmail account - I think you need be considered a “Plus User” if you want to enable POP3 settings which requires you to upgrade your account and pay a fee.

If you run into any problems, Google has a support page which is quite helpful, or feel free to leave a comment with a question.

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